Free Marriage Crisis Assessment
Find Out Where Your Marriage Stands - and What to Do Next
Answer 16 honest questions. Get a clear picture of your situation and a specific recommendation for your next step.
Here is how this works.
Three steps. No obligation. No pressure. Just clarity about where you stand and what is actually available to you.
Take the Assessment
Answer 16 honest questions about your situation. It takes about 5 minutes. No account required.
Get Your Results
We analyze your answers and show you exactly where your marriage stands - and which path forward fits your situation.
Take the Next Step
Whether that is a workshop, a coaching call, or simply more information - you will know exactly what to do next.
Ready to find out where your marriage stands?
If you are reading this, something has already broken down.
You did not end up here by accident. Most people who find Marriage Helper are dealing with at least one of these:
- Your spouse has emotionally checked out - or already said the word divorce.
- You have discovered an affair, or you suspect one.
- You have tried counseling and it did not work - or made things worse.
- You are living in the same house but feel completely alone.
- You are the only one trying, and you do not know how much longer you can do this.
Whatever brought you here - you are not overreacting. And you are not out of options. But the next step has to be the right one for your specific situation. That is what this assessment is for.
Your situation is specific. Your results will be too.
Marriage Helper is not therapy. It is something that actually works.
Founded by Dr. Joe Beam and led by CEO Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes, Marriage Helper was built specifically for marriages in crisis - not for couples who just need a tune-up.
Traditional counseling is designed for couples who are both willing, both present, and both committed to the process. Most people who come to Marriage Helper have already tried that. It did not work - because their situation required something different.
Our 3-day intensive workshops are built for marriages at the breaking point. We work with reluctant spouses. We work with affairs. We work with one spouse who has completely checked out. And we have a documented 70% success rate to show for it.
This is not what you have already tried.
Understanding what Marriage Helper is - and is not - matters before you take the next step.
Questions about the assessment.
If you are wondering whether this is worth your time, these answers should help.
You will receive a personalized crisis level based on your specific answers - not a generic score. We will tell you where your marriage stands across five dimensions: your situation, how you feel, urgency, logistics, and readiness. You will also receive a specific product recommendation - whether that is the Solo Workshop, the Couples Workshop, Membership, or one-on-one Coaching - based on what you shared.
The goal is not to alarm you. It is to give you clarity about what your situation actually calls for so you can take the right next step.
It is genuinely personalized. The assessment uses your first name throughout, and the transition screens between sections reflect back what you just shared - so it responds to your answers, not a template. Your final results are calculated from your specific combination of answers across all 15 questions, including a crisis multiplier that activates only when certain combinations are present in your situation.
Two people can take the same assessment and receive completely different results and recommendations. That is by design.
Completely okay - and very common. The majority of people who find Marriage Helper are the one doing the searching while their spouse has checked out or refused to engage. The Solo Workshop was built specifically for that situation. You do not need your spouse’s participation to take this assessment or to begin getting help.
What you share here is private. We will never contact your spouse or share your information with anyone.
Traditional couples counseling is designed for marriages that are struggling but stable - where both spouses are willing, present, and committed to a long-term process. It is not designed for crisis. When a marriage is in serious concern or active crisis - an affair, a spouse who has checked out, separation, or divorce proceedings - weekly counseling often makes things worse, not better, because it is the wrong tool for the situation.
Marriage Helper’s workshops are specifically designed for marriages at the breaking point. We work with reluctant spouses, active affairs, and situations where one partner has completely disengaged. Our 70% success rate is documented across 30 years and 25,000+ couples - many of whom had already tried and failed with traditional counseling.
It is not too late. Infidelity is one of the most common situations we work with - and one of the situations where we have the most documented success. The assessment will ask you about this directly, and your results will reflect it. The recommendation you receive will be specific to the type of affair and where things stand right now.
What matters most in an affair situation is not what has happened - it is what happens next. Taking this assessment is a meaningful first step.
The assessment has 15 questions and takes most people about 5 minutes to complete. It is completely free. No account required, no credit card, no obligation of any kind.
At the end, we will ask for your email so we can send you your results and a few resources based on what you shared. That is the only thing we ask for.
You will receive your personalized results immediately after completing the assessment. We will also send those results to the email you provide, along with a few resources tailored to your situation.
If your results indicate Serious Concern or Active Crisis, a member of our team may reach out directly - but only in the way you indicated you prefer to be contacted. We will never pressure you. Our job is to give you information and let you decide what to do with it.
Ready to find out where your marriage stands?
Your marriage does not have to end here.
The assessment takes 5 minutes. It costs nothing. And it will give you more clarity about your situation than most people get from months of searching on their own.