The Coaching Lab.
8 weeks of becoming the spouse your marriage needs.
Weekly coach-led teachings, small-group coaching, full app access. Built to actually change you, week by week.
The May 28 cohort is full.
Get on the waitlist for the next cohort. Same 8 weeks. Same teachings. Same outcome. We’ll reach out the moment a seat opens.
The Coaching Lab
The Coaching Lab
Three things, working together.
Most programs give you one. We built this so all three reinforce each other, every week, for 8 weeks.
Weekly Coach Teachings
A Marriage Helper coach walks you through one of the core tools we’ve refined over 30+ years. Each one is built to actually change something in the next 7 days.
- Calm Down
- Smart Communication
- Healthy Boundaries
- + 5 more weekly teachings
Weekly Group Coaching
Small groups, not a 500-person Zoom. You’ll work through each week’s teaching with a handful of people in similar situations and a coach who knows what to do with what you bring.
- One session per week, 8 weeks total
- Up to 6 people per group
- Coach-facilitated discussion
- Time for your specific situation
Marriage Helper App
Daily check-ins to keep you grounded. Progress trackers so you can see what’s actually shifting. A community area where you don’t feel alone at 2am.
- Daily check-ins & reflections
- Progress trackers
- Community area, 24/7
- Mobile + web
You already know what this is.
You’ve read the books. You’ve watched the videos. You’ve tried the silent treatments and the over-explaining and the late-night reasoning. You don’t need more information.
You need a structure, a guide, and people in your corner. 8 weeks of actually doing the work, with coaches who will sit with you in the hard parts, a small group facing the same things you are, and the tools that have helped over 25,000 couples come back from places they didn’t think they could come back from.
Most programs vs. The Coaching Lab.
If you’ve done other marriage programs, you already know what’s missing. This is what we built differently.
Most programs
- 500-person Zoom calls
- Theory and information overload
- Generic advice that fits no one
- Recordings only, no live access
- You figure it out alone at 2am
- One coach for the masses
The Coaching Lab
- Small groups of 6, every week
- Tools you actually use in the next 7 days
- Coaches who know your situation
- Live teachings + live coaching
- A community walking the same road
- The same coach every single week
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Three and a half years ago, my husband said he was never stepping foot in the house again. Right now he’s in our son’s room playing video games. Still married.
Week by week, what we’ll do together.
Same 8 weeks for every start date. Same teachings. Same coaches. Same outcome.
Lower the Temperature
Calm Down.
Clear the Fog
Get Clarity.
Know What’s Pushing Them Away
Stop Push Behavior.
Make Contact Count
Smart Communication.
Become Someone Worth Coming Back To
Become a More Attractive You.
Control What You Can, Release What You Can’t
Influence vs. Control.
Know Where the Line Is
Healthy Boundaries.
Your First Mile
How Everything Ties Together.
The tools you’ll walk away with.
Each one refined over 30+ years. Each one built to be used in the next 7 days.
Calm Down
Stop reacting from panic. Choose your response.
Get Clarity
See what’s actually there, not what you fear.
Stop Push Behavior
Stop the patterns driving them away.
Smart Communication
Make every word land the way you mean it.
Become Attractive Again
Become someone worth coming back to.
Influence vs. Control
Let go of what was never yours.
Healthy Boundaries
Know where the line is, and hold it.
Your First Mile
Know how to keep going when this is over.
Honest answers, no fluff.
What if my spouse won’t do this with me?
This is designed for the spouse who’s ready to do the work, alone if they have to be. That’s most of the people in here. The shifts that change a marriage in crisis almost always start with one person changing first, not both.
If your spouse comes around later, great. If they never do, you still get the most important outcome: becoming someone who is no longer reacting from panic.
How is this different from therapy?
Therapy is open-ended exploration. This is a structured 8-week intensive with specific outcomes per week. You leave each week with one thing to do, not eight years of homework.
It’s also coached, not therapized. Our coaches are trained in the Marriage Helper method that’s helped over 25,000 couples. They’re not licensed therapists, and we’re not trying to be.
What if I miss a week?
Every teaching and every lab is live, and every one is recorded. If you can’t make it, the replay is in the app for you to watch when you can.
The May 28 cohort is sold out. What now?
May 28 filled all 94 seats. The next two cohorts, June 18 and July 9, are running by waitlist. Get on the waitlist above and we’ll reach out the moment a seat opens or a new start date is announced.
Can I pay in installments?
Yes. At checkout you’ll see options for Klarna and Affirm. Both let you split the payment into 4 (or sometimes more) without extra fees. Pay in full also works.
How small are the groups?
Capped at 6 people per group, on purpose. Small enough that you can be honest, share what’s actually going on, and get specific feedback. Not so small that you feel exposed.
What’s your refund policy?
We don’t offer refunds. But if something is genuinely not working for you, reach out. We always do what we can to make it right.
What happens after 8 weeks?
You keep your access to all 8 teachings. You stay in the community area as long as you want. Many alumni continue with ongoing coaching or the Marriage Helper workshops. Nothing more is required.